Love is…
Scripture 1 Corinthians 13:4-7
(NRSV)
4 Love is patient; love is kind; love
is not envious or boastful or arrogant 5 or rude. It does not
insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; 6 it
does not rejoice in wrongdoing, but rejoices in the truth. 7 It
bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
Devotion:
Today
there are many ways to finish this sentence. In fact, I looked it up on Google
and found over 17 billion entries. One wonders if there are so many ideas about
what love is how could a person ever decide between these competing ideas. Can
we ever truthfully say we know what the secret to what love is? It is fair to
say that a majority of these solutions to the question of love are recent when
compared to these words we have above from the Apostle Paul. Yet these ancient
words seem to have the “ring of truth” to them that many of their modern counterparts
do not. However, the first result is from a Boston church that is deeply moving
in its description of what love is. Most of those that follow are not
exaltation of the kind of love shown here in this passage.
When
we examine these words from the Apostle Paul, we find the way of love suggested
is not an easy road to walk. The very first descriptor is that love is patient.
Right away we run up against our modern culture. We are not very patient people
in this 21st century. From microwave meals to on-demand television
we are a culture trained by our technological overlords to want what we want as
quickly as possible. It affects church goers just like the rest of humankind. We
want to spend exactly 1 hour in church a week. Let the sermon run a little long
or we have a baptism or Lord’s Supper that delays us just a little bit and you
will hear grumbling from the pews. We are not a patient people.
Next
on the list is love is kind. If we are in a good mood, we can find kindness
quite easy to offer one another. But let something tick us off and all our
kindness drains away, and we are left with a brittle hard exterior that love
cannot penetrate Paul seems to be urging us on here. Asking us to move beyond whatever
irritates us in the moment to show kindness to strangers and friends alike.
Now
we come to a list of four things love is not. Love simply has no place for
envy, boasting, arrogance and rudeness. These traits are all too common in our modern
world. We have come in this 21st century we almost expect to be treated
to one or more of these character traits on a daily basis. From secretly
coveting our neighbors new toy to watching professional athletes boast because
they just delivered an unbelievable catch in the endzone to win the game. These
traits are endemic to our modern world.
Paul
goes on to say that love does not insist on its own way. Our modern culture is
almost set up, so we get things our own way. We do not have much good to say when
we are denied our own way. Likewise, when we are denied our own way, we
frequently become irritable and resentful toward those things or persons who
have denied us our “right” to have some pleasure or entertainment. Then Paul tackles
our affection for wrongdoing and our aversion to the truth. It seems that some
people today are simply fans of those who do wrong. Standing for the truth is
getting to be a lonely endeavor. If one needs proof of this one need only to
look at our politics. Where we routinely see the wrong exalted while the truth
remains on the sidelines.
In
conclusion Paul mentions character traits of love that we should imitate. Love
bears all the abuse and evil that is thrown its way, Love believes all things
taking and clinging to the truths of scripture with tenacity. Love hopes all
things, in spite of the current situations in the world the loving person
clings determinedly to the hope of the 2nd coming. Finally, love
endures all things. Today’s culture has a strong tendency to give up when the
going gets rough. Not the Christian filled with God’s love. That person will
endure any hardship, trial, or pain for the sake of the Jesus and his cross.
God is love and we are to be like God in that we love one another (even our
enemies) with that same love with which Christ loves us. Amen.
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